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| Alex and Wilbur on a Friday afternoon at the Sakkara Club |
Hello sweet readers! It's been a long while since I last updated this
blog, but I plan to start up again- or at least give it the old college
try. Over the past year things have changed, and they haven't, both
personally and on a larger scale, so I'll use this entry to try to cover
the big differences as I see them.
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| Quiet night at home |
Alex and I are still living in the leafy Cairo suburb of Maadi,
where we moved last spring after the revolution. Milo has grown from a
fluffy kitten to a feathery 'Cairo white' (read: dusty-looking) cat with
a bit of a pouch. Life with a dog has given him some excellent canine
qualities like coming when called, chasing after toys and, well, I guess
that's it. But he's a very friendly, funny cat and a great
friend/admirer of Wilbur and mankind. And Wilbur!! Wilbur is the
greatest. Sweet and affectionate, full of joy and always up for a walk, a
snuggle, tug of war, snack, training session, trip to the beach, hide
and seek, and generalized rough-housing... The two of them are at
attention the minute they hear the elevator door click open and ready to
provide all the entertainment we could ask for. In addition, they've
made our apartment a home and made us feel like a family, which as I've
gotten older has becoming increasingly important to me.
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| On the beach at Ras Sudr |

I only wish (like any pet owner and probably everyone else) that we
had more time at home with them. Alex and I leave for work at around
7:10am (in theory, anyway) and most days I get home about 7pm and him
closer to 8. Since last October I've been working at an international
school in Zahraa El-Maadi, a dusty strip of hastily-constructed
buildings that stretches out into the desert about 15 minutes away from
our place, and then after school I give English lessons to three French
families in the neighborhood. Alex is still working on the railroad (the
first five stations on the new line opened last month) and thanks to a
promotion earlier this year has additional responsibilities and a lot
more employees under his control, keeping him busier and more engaged.
I'm happy with my work too: after leaving my third magazine job last May
I made the hard choice to not look for another editing position, as I
probably wouldn't be able to make a career of it in America or France
without a journalism degree (...or even with one - curse you, death of
print media!). So when I came back from six weeks in the states last
summer I took on daily tutoring work and after a couple of months found
my current position in the admissions department of a French private
school, which is great preparation for a career in educational
administration - something I can hope to make a go of wherever we end
up, maybe even without having to go to grad school(!!). My main
responsibilities are doing evaluations of prospective students and
editing documents in English and translating them from French. I like
both: interacting with toddlers and young kids is easy and for the most
part a lot of fun, and the translation and editing work keeps my mind
active and improves my French. Working in French, though a struggle at
first, has been a really great experience and helps relieve the monotony
of office work. There are two other ladies in my department,
Dalia is 27 and Italian-Egyptian and Cherine is 29 and Algerian, and
they are good company. In fact, virtually all of my coworkers (aside
from the revolving door of snotty French interns) are a pleasure to work
with. Although the school management, like that of jobs everywhere, has
its issues, I'm happy with the work both day-to-day and with the
experience it gives me.
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| Hiking trip in the Eastern Desert last fall: Alex, Mathieu, Tori, me, Jessica, Lindsey |
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| "Beds are so overrated when you've got a slab r |
Life as an expat means saying goodbye to close friends and we've had
a couple of major losses recently. Tori, my former roommate and closest
friend for the past three years, just moved to France a couple weeks ago
with Mathieu, Alex's roommate, coworker, and - again - best friend.
We're happy for them and excited to keep up with their new adventures,
but of course we miss them terribly. Mathieu is working for the company
headquarters in Paris and Tori, whose visa prohibits work, is taking
French classes. There's also Mike, Alex's diving buddy, who is incredibly multi-talented and our closest Egyptian friend, who is leaving for Quebec at the end of the week. This past year, Alex and I were considering a move to
France ourselves, seriously enough for me to apply to (and get awarded) a teaching assistant program in Bordeaux, but we've decided to
stay in Egypt until his contract is up at the end of 2013. I'm secure in
the knowledge that it's the right decision for us, but seeing friends
move on makes me think about all the paths not taken.
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| Milo, desert warrior |
It'll be interesting to be here to see what's in store for the
country- the fall of the regime gave us (and the other expats who've
stayed) a much deeper interest - and investment - in Egypt and its
people. It hasn't been easy to watch, though: the hopes that so many
people had for a better future have so far not been realized. The
Mubarak government, the police state and the military were all deeply
imbedded in the country and have not been easy to roust out. Continual
protests have been put down with much violence and personal liberties in
many ways have become fewer. The new government inherited many problems
and has not been quick to solve them. The enormous decline in tourism
and investment has led to serious job loss and unemployment, and average
Egyptians have become poorer. Presidential elections have yet to occur
and the constitution is still being written, but for the most part the
great optimism that swept everyone up has disappeared, replaced by
frustration and anxiety. This has affected day-to-day life as well: it
seems like most people I know have been personally affected by a wave of
crime: friends getting pick-pocketed in the street and held up at
knife-point in a cab, apartments broken into... Alex's sneakers were
stolen from his car, which was funny in a way but still served to drive
the point home. While before the revolution I never worried for my
personal safety, now I hesitate to walk Wilbur after dark and try not to
carry much money or use my phone in taxis. Stories of mugging,
car-jacking, kidnapping and even murder travel through the grapevine,
along with tips on how to protect ourselves. Although I do feel like I
appreciated Cairo's safety before, its absence puts things in grim
perspective.
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| Under the hot Hurghada sun on a dive trip in April |
Fret not, dear readers, it's not all doom and gloom. Alex, our
friends and I all try to be careful and nothing seriously bad has
happened to us. And daily life is pretty great: walks to the park with Wilbur and
occasional trips to the Wadi Degla reserve with him and Milo, yoga,
shisha, movie nights, weekends at the beach in Ras Sudr, adventures
hiking and diving with our gang, vacations in Greece and the
Netherlands, all which I'll write about in upcoming posts. But for now
I'll stop here, with a promise to return to occasionally-scheduled
programming. :D
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| Another Hurghada trip last fall: Julien, Mike, Aladin, Lindsey, Mathieu standing; Alex, me, Wilbur and Tori seated. |